Why Do People Litter?
Answer: Some people litter because it’s a habit. Others just don’t really care.
No matter why people litter, it is against the law and hurts the environment.
Littering shows a lack of respect for others and their property, and it makes everything look ugly.
Christians should respect other people, other people’s property, God’s creation, and the law. So we should not litter.
Key verse: Then God said, “Let us make a man-someone like ourselves.
He will be the master of all life upon the earth and in the skies and in the seas.” (Genesis 1:26)
Related verse: Luke 6:31
Related question: Does God let pollution up into heaven?
Note to parents: Kids often have the mentality that “I didn’t make the mess so I don’t have to clean it up.”
We need to teach our kids to take responsibility for the environment.
If you see litter, pick it up. Keep some kind of bag for trash in your car. Set an example for your child in this area.
Why Is It Not Good To Talk To Strangers?
Answer: Sadly, there are a lot of bad people in the world. Some of these people want to do bad things to children.
That’s why children are told not to talk to strangers. God does not have a rule against it in the Bible, so it’s not wrong in that way.
But God has said to obey your parents, so it would be wrong to disobey your mom or dad if they told you not to talk to adults you don’t know.
Even if your parents haven’t said anything, it would be wise to stay away from strangers.
Of course, some “strangers” are good people, and some may even need help. But still it is a good rule to stay away from adults you don’t know.
So it’s not wrong to talk to a stranger, it just could be dangerous. That’s why your parents tell you not to do it.
They don’t want you to put yourself in a place where a stranger who is a bad person could hurt you.
If a stranger asks you for help or you see someone in trouble, get your mom or dad or another adult that you know. Don’t try to help by yourself.
Key verse: In the last days there will come scoffers. They will do every wrong they can think of. And they will laugh at the truth. (2 Peter 3:3)
Related verses: Proverbs 14:15; Romans 16:17-18; Ephesians 6:1-3
Note to parents: One way to help your child learn how to talk to strangers is to role-play.
This can give the child the opportunity to practice what to say and do before a scary situation arises.
Also, explain that in the proper context and situations God requires us to be kind to new people we meet.
Is It Ok To Beg For Things From Your Parents?
Answer: It is OK to ask your parents for things, but not to beg. For example, you could ask for a special treat, Christmas presents, or permission to go to a friend’s house or stay up late.
You should ask politely and explain your reasons. But if they say no, you should accept their answer with a good attitude.
Don’t beg. That is, don’t ask over and over and over to try to get them to give you what they really don’t want to give you. Don’t try to wear them down.
The key is simply to respect your parents. They gave their answer because they thought it was best for you.
If you wear them down, you may get what you want and then regret it later. God gave you parents to protect you and provide for you.
If you talk them into going against their first answer, you step outside that protection. Respect and obey your mom and dad.
Key verse: When you do ask you don’t get it because your whole aim is wrong. You want only what will make you happy. (James 4:3)
Related verses: Exodus 20: 12; Ephesians 6: 1-3; Colossians 3:20
Note to parents: Don’t let a child wear you down with nagging. (More to the point, don’t allow the child to nag!) And when your child does push or beg, don’t give in unless you have a good reason.
Also, affirm your children every time they make a polite request, respond the right way to your answers, and have a positive attitude.
Finally, always think about your answer before giving it.
If the answer could be or should be yes, but you say no for convenience, you’ll probably change your mind when your child nags you. And that will encourage nagging with every no!