Why Can’t I Have All The Things I Want?
Answer: There are at least three reasons: First, you don’t ask God for them. Second, you ask God for them, but you want them only for yourself, so he says no.
Third, they cost too much or are bad for you, so your parents say no. God wants you to love him, help others, give to his work, and be content.
Money gets in the way of all that. You can’t spend all day, every day shopping and also love God, help others, give to his work, and be content.
Sooner or later you have to stop being selfish.
You don’t need all the things you want anyway. And think about this: If you got everything you wanted, what would you do with all that stuff?
Key verse: Then [Jesus] said, “Beware! Don’t be greedy for what you don’t have. Real life is not measured by how much we own.” (Luke 12:15)
Related verses: Proverbs 21:17; Ecclesiastes 5:10- 12; 6:9; James 4:1-3; 1 John 2:15-17
Related questions: Why don’t my parents buy expensive things for me, only clothes?
Why do parents not buy us a lot of things? How come when you want something and you’re going to pay, your parents won’t let you have it?
Note to parents: Most kids pressure parents to buy things they want.
Do not let your kids nag you into buying things They will survive without them.
Don’t let kids convince you that they can’t be happy without that special something.
What people want most-a loving family and loyal friends-can never be bought.
Learning to do without is one of the most powerful skills you can teach your children.
Why Do People Fight Over Money?
Answer: One reason is greed. Some people want more money than they have, and they want it so much that they fight to get it. They are being selfish.
Another reason is that families just have to work out an agreement.
Sometimes families argue about money because husbands and wives need to agree on how they are going to manage and spend their money.
They should not fight about it, but it does take time to work out a plan, and they may not agree at first.
Always remember that people are more important than money.
Talk over your money problems rather than fight about them.
But if you can’t agree, it’s usually better to let someone else have his or her way than to lose a friend because of a fight over money.
Key verse: Greed causes fighting; trusting the Lord leads to prosperity. (Proverbs 28:25)
Related verses: Ecclesiastes 6:9; Luke 12:13-21; James 4:1-3; 1 John 2:15-17
Related questions: Why do parents, when they go out with a friend for lunch, always argue about who is paying?
Why do people argue about money? Why does money make people mad?
Note to parents: This question highlights the importance of contentment.
People fight over money because they what they don’t have.
Whenever a question like this comes up, remind your child that it’s better to be content than to have more money.
Why Do People Want More Money If They Already Have Lots Of It?
Answer: Greed makes people want more and more and more. They feel as if they never have enough, even though they really do.
Greedy people become so worried about money that they think about it all the time.
Greedy people are never satisfied, never content. God wants us to be satisfied and to find our contentment in him.
Sometimes people want more money for good reasons.
They want to do something for God’s kingdom or for other people, such as giving to those who have lost their homes or spreading the message of Jesus.
Key verse: Those who love money will never have enough. How absurd to think that wealth brings true happiness! (Ecclesiastes 5:10)
Related verses: Proverbs 27:20; Ecclesiastes 5:10- 12; Ezekiel 33:31; Luke 12:13-21; Philippians 4:11-12; Hebrews 13:5; 1 John 2:15-17
Related questions: Why do rich people have so much money? If people have lots of money, why do they rob?
Note to parents: A question like this may arise when news of professional athletes’ contract negotiations hits the front page.
It’s a fair question, one that occurs to many adults as well as kids. Rather than condemn rich people, use the opportunity to point out that an addiction to money hurts.
Greed and selfishness are terrible forces in a person’s life, making otherwise nice people act cruel, unfair, and even criminal.